When we talk about relationships, the conversation can go in many directions because we have different perspectives about what a relationship can be. Is it casual, serious, long term, matter of convenience, one sided, mutual, or exclusive. Is it a fling, liaison or an affair. Is it secret, open or something different or, god forbid, a combination. One of the most important questions we need to ask ourselves at some point is “What do we want from the relationship“? Knowing…..
Being in a relationship with someone you really care about cannot be something you take for granted. You cannot rely on the flames of love to continue to keep burning bright if you dont continue to fan the flame, give it oxygen and maybe some additional fuel. You need to show your partner you care. It is work to be in a relationship. An “I Love You” once in a while and flowers on Valentine’s Day will not be enough……